I like to say, "There is no Joy, in that!".
It's usually when people are, trying to make things harder, than they need to be. Some people tend to ... I guess, it's true "misery loves company".
But I guess, "Life sucks, then you die" or "Life is suffering".
But I do think,
that you can take joy from the pain,
joy from the difficulty,
Joy from the hurt.
I can take "Joy from the rain".
It's a very beautiful rain!